From my experience people with creative/sharp minds have that translate to other facets of life. I like to try and exercise twice a week but don't expect that from my sex partners. Is confident in themselves, comfortable their own skin and compassionate.
I love reading, cooking, wine tasting, and meeting new people. Oh yea...long walks on the beach as well. I love sexy alot I'm also a freak and am willing to try nearly anything.
Sexy and genuine people, non smokers.